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What Women Really Want

What I’ve got to share is 100% positive and with best
intentions, but I know there will be some people who are
going to misinterpret what I have to share.

Anyway, with that said, let’s get to it…

It’s my contention that what 90% of women really want in
bed is for their man to take the leadership role.

To put it less elegantly, they want a guy to be dominant.

They want a guy to take command and they want to enjoy
the process.

They want to be “in the present”, they don’t want to make
decisions, they want to be led and they want to express
true femininity.

They want to experience and express emotion… and they
want you to be there to direct them.

They want to submit to you.

They want to do whatever it takes to please you…

But only if you step up as the dominant man.

Here’s a great saying that helps explain the mindset that’s
required…

“Don’t ask for permission; beg for forgiveness”

When you ask for permission you instantly give up your
leadership role.

If a woman’s going to submit to you (which most of them
deep down WANT to), she has to TRUST that you’re
going to be the man and look after her.

As soon as you demonstrate a lack of dominance, she can
no longer trust you to take the lead…

And as a result, she’ll shut down her open-ness and
femininity.

This is exactly what happens as soon as you ask for
permission.

As soon as you say something like “can we try this…”,
“do you want do this…”, “do you mind if we…” or
anything that effectively is asking for her permission…

You INSTANTLY shut down part of her sexual desire,
because in doing so you’ve just communicated that you
don’t have the balls to take the lead.

And that’s exactly what taking the lead requires…

Balls.

Because when you’re prepared to take the lead and act
dominant you are risking rejection.

When you act instead of ask for permission you open
yourself up to her saying “no”.

There’s a good chance that if you go to do something,
she’s going to say “No, I don’t want that” or “No, I’m
not ready for that”.

And although, yes, this may be rejection…

What you’ve also just done in this scenario is
communicated to her that you’re a man who’s prepared
to LEAD.

And although she may reject a specific action you do,
she’ll be attracted to you for having the balls to take the
action in the first place.

This is what women REALLY want in bed.

Let me give you an example…

Say you want to try out a new sex position, there are two
ways to go about it…

#1 – During sex you could say “can we try this new sex
position?”

Or…

#2 – You can take the lead, go to move her into that
position and observe her reactions along the way to see
if she is comfortable with it.

Now here’s where I expect the controversy, but let me be
clear…

When I point out option #2 I am NOT condoning doing
anything without her consent.

I am NOT for example saying if you want to try anal you
just put it in and see what she says…

What I’m saying is that instead of asking permission, slowly
progress towards what you want to do and CAREFULLY
OBSERVE HER REACTIONS.

As you progress it’ll be clear whether she wants you to do
something or not.

If she doesn’t explicitly say she doesn’t want to do something,
then it’ll be obvious from how she’s acting… and if she’s not
into something then I recommend to STOP IMMEDIATELY.

Like I said, this is not about doing things without consent…

It’s about being willing to take the lead and accepting and
respecting rejection if it comes as a result.

Even if she doesn’t like what you move to do, she’ll respect
you and be attracted to you for taking the lead instead of
asking as if she’s the one in charge.

THIS is what 90% of women really want in bed.

They want you to step up as the man and take charge.

Be willing to fail…

Be prepared to accept rejection…

And as long as you’re CONGRUENT throughout the
process and genuinely put yourself in the state of mind of
being the man…

She will MELT in your arms for it, because this is what most
women REALLY want in bed.

Talk soon,

Uche Kings

How to satisfy a woman in bed in 15 ways Men get séxually aroused extremely fast and can lose the erection really fast too. But a woman, she takes her time to get aroused, and when she does get aroused, she stays aroused for a long time.Use these 15 tips to satisfy a woman in bed and make her want more of you, even if you’ve been in the same relationship for a very long time.#1 Go down on her. If all else fails, this usually succeeds. If you’re having a hard time getting your woman warmed up for the act, just go down on her and spend a gentle while down there. Almost always, this would help build the momentum for a great night ahead.#2 Take time during foreplay. Most men hurry the foreplay bit without any consideration for the woman they’re with. Just because you’re up and ready doesn’t mean your woman is ready too. Take your time before penetration, and both of you will enjoy séx a lot more.#3 Remember her erogenous zones. The typical erogenous zones in a woman are several, going from the back of her neck, her ears, and all the way to her knees and her toes. But each woman has a few special sweet spots that switch the button on instantly.Kiss and nibble the entire length of her body and make sure you remember the zones that excite her more than the others. It’ll always come in handy the next time you want to arouse her faster.#4 Don’t roll over and sleep. Falling asleep immediately after séx is a good sign because it means you’re secure enough in the relationship to just enjoy the relaxing after-séx sensation without having to worry about awkward moments.But there’s a thin line between being secure and taking your woman for granted. Cuddle up after séx or indulge in pillow talk for a while. Or just fall asleep in each other’s arms.#5 Your hygiene matters. Looking good for your woman makes a huge difference in the experience she has in bed. After all, a better looking partner is more of a turn on, isn’t it? But you need to remember that looking good doesn’t just mean a six pack abs.Have a shower if you’re making love at the end of a long day, and keep all those hairy regions clean and trimmed. Smell great and feel great in bed, and your woman will definitely have a hard time keeping her hands off of you!#6 Kiss and tell. Women have an active imagination and tend to rely on feelings more than visual appearances. If you want to turn your woman on and satisfy her in bed, arouse her mind by using the right words. Whisper sweet nothings in her ears or talk about her favorite fantasies. As long as you excite her mind with your seductive words, she’ll have an orgasm that’ll grip you hard down there.#7 Don’t be selfish. If you want to know how to satisfy a woman in bed, this is as simple as it gets. Put your woman’s needs in bed before yours. Understand her preferences in bed, be it about the dim lighting or the right side of the bed, and make sure she’s feeling comfortable enough to enjoy having séx without any insecurities or awkwardness.#8 Experiment all the time. The most boring of séxual relationships are the ones where the couples just do the missionary and don’t experiment at all, be it about positions or about dirty conversations. If you want to do more than just satisfy your woman in bed, try new things all the time. If you feel like a particular séx fantasy or a particular position is starting to get monotonous, freshen things up by trying something new.#9 The right compliments. Women love appreciation in bed. It makes them shed their inhibitions more easily and gets them to experiment in bed sooner. When you’re naked in bed with your woman and find something fascinating about her, make sure you share the thought with your woman. She’ll feel better about herself and her new séxual confidence will definitely lead to better séx.#10 Trigger zones and fantasies. Do you have any fantasies that make you hard as soon as you think about it? Well, girls have their own trigger fantasies too. For some girls, it’s a séxual fantasy while for others, it may be an erogenous zone.Speak to your woman and find out what turns her on instantly. It’ll play a big part in turning her on, and at times, it can help her orgasm sooner when you can’t hold on for too long.#11 Play with her body. Just because you’re inside of her doesn’t mean you should stop focusing on the rest of her. Play with her body and move your hands all over her. Massage her, stroke her and grab her all over. It’ll turn your girl on a lot more than just focusing on the missionary.#12 Refresh s é x all the time. The primary reason why séx starts to get boring is because it can get rather repetitive after a while. The typical foreplay-followed-by-missionary-position séx may be the most comfortable of all positions and it may feel intimate too, but every now and then, try something new just to bring a change into your bedroom.Try role playing, dirty talking or a few séxy games in bed. Just when séx starts to get predictable, bring an interesting twist into it. By refreshing séx all the time, you can make each time you make love with your woman feel like a one night stand!#13 Bite, lick and suck. Kissing is sensual and romantic. But don’t stop there. Let her feel your passion when you bite her and tongue her body. And here’s something to remember, a good love bite in the strategic regions will still feel just as passionate to a woman even after several years of going out with each other.#14 Be outrageous. Séx gets séxier the more wild and outrageous it feels. If you want to satisfy your woman, learn to get risqué with your actions. Do something bold now and then, and séx will feel a lot more exciting. Have séx near an open window, use blindfolds, grope each other on a dark dance floor… The wilder your thoughts and actions, the séxier the séx will be.#15 Her orgasm first. The last tip to satisfy your woman is only the most important one. The perfect orgasm is the high point of lovemaking. And if you orgasm before her, it’s almost certain that she’ll have to make do without an orgasm. Control your erection better and learn to hold on for longer, so you can satisfy your woman completely before you orgasm.Keeping a woman happy séxually isn’t really hard, just as long as you remember these 15 tips on how to satisfy a woman in bed. Remember these and your girl will definitely be more than just happy with your bedroom capabilities.