What Women Really Want

What I’ve got to share is 100% positive and with best
intentions, but I know there will be some people who are
going to misinterpret what I have to share.

Anyway, with that said, let’s get to it…

It’s my contention that what 90% of women really want in
bed is for their man to take the leadership role.

To put it less elegantly, they want a guy to be dominant.

They want a guy to take command and they want to enjoy
the process.

They want to be “in the present”, they don’t want to make
decisions, they want to be led and they want to express
true femininity.

They want to experience and express emotion… and they
want you to be there to direct them.

They want to submit to you.

They want to do whatever it takes to please you…

But only if you step up as the dominant man.

Here’s a great saying that helps explain the mindset that’s
required…

“Don’t ask for permission; beg for forgiveness”

When you ask for permission you instantly give up your
leadership role.

If a woman’s going to submit to you (which most of them
deep down WANT to), she has to TRUST that you’re
going to be the man and look after her.

As soon as you demonstrate a lack of dominance, she can
no longer trust you to take the lead…

And as a result, she’ll shut down her open-ness and
femininity.

This is exactly what happens as soon as you ask for
permission.

As soon as you say something like “can we try this…”,
“do you want do this…”, “do you mind if we…” or
anything that effectively is asking for her permission…

You INSTANTLY shut down part of her sexual desire,
because in doing so you’ve just communicated that you
don’t have the balls to take the lead.

And that’s exactly what taking the lead requires…

Balls.

Because when you’re prepared to take the lead and act
dominant you are risking rejection.

When you act instead of ask for permission you open
yourself up to her saying “no”.

There’s a good chance that if you go to do something,
she’s going to say “No, I don’t want that” or “No, I’m
not ready for that”.

And although, yes, this may be rejection…

What you’ve also just done in this scenario is
communicated to her that you’re a man who’s prepared
to LEAD.

And although she may reject a specific action you do,
she’ll be attracted to you for having the balls to take the
action in the first place.

This is what women REALLY want in bed.

Let me give you an example…

Say you want to try out a new sex position, there are two
ways to go about it…

#1 – During sex you could say “can we try this new sex
position?”

Or…

#2 – You can take the lead, go to move her into that
position and observe her reactions along the way to see
if she is comfortable with it.

Now here’s where I expect the controversy, but let me be
clear…

When I point out option #2 I am NOT condoning doing
anything without her consent.

I am NOT for example saying if you want to try anal you
just put it in and see what she says…

What I’m saying is that instead of asking permission, slowly
progress towards what you want to do and CAREFULLY
OBSERVE HER REACTIONS.

As you progress it’ll be clear whether she wants you to do
something or not.

If she doesn’t explicitly say she doesn’t want to do something,
then it’ll be obvious from how she’s acting… and if she’s not
into something then I recommend to STOP IMMEDIATELY.

Like I said, this is not about doing things without consent…

It’s about being willing to take the lead and accepting and
respecting rejection if it comes as a result.

Even if she doesn’t like what you move to do, she’ll respect
you and be attracted to you for taking the lead instead of
asking as if she’s the one in charge.

THIS is what 90% of women really want in bed.

They want you to step up as the man and take charge.

Be willing to fail…

Be prepared to accept rejection…

And as long as you’re CONGRUENT throughout the
process and genuinely put yourself in the state of mind of
being the man…

She will MELT in your arms for it, because this is what most
women REALLY want in bed.

Talk soon,

Uche Kings